What Men Want

Before write down more further about relationship, love and all... I wish to cover several things about what men want, this is all from my point of view. Please feel free to comments, yet I hope to receive a positive respond, cause I also want to learn more about men, because I believe, understanding is the best way to keep the relationship for a long time.

I came from a small family, which consist me, my mother, my father, and three brothers. Before fall in love for first time, about eight years ago, I always told myself that I am understand men more than anyone else besides me, because I live, grown up with men, well, I am surrounded by men.

Yet, I make fool of myself, cause of that belief, make me broke up with him. :)

Well, let start.

WHAT MEN WANTS?
1. To watch football / soccer with them.~ whatever game they love
2. To play whatever PLAY STATION / go to arcade centers with them and either play with them (they will like it more), or just accompany them there.
3. To keep silent, apart from lecturing them if they make mistakes.
4. Expecting we, women, to forget the past like them, (somehow, most women will hold big grudge and will do something about it if are giving chances in the future).
5. Expecting women to keep silent if they are doing their jobs / homework / assignments.
6. Expecting we to comfort them if they are unhappy.
7. Expecting women to reply email / text if they are emailing / texting we.
8. Expecting we to say sorry first, if argue.
9. We agree or just keep quiet if we asked them to make decision.
10. Understand that they are human, they also can cry and not strong.
11. To be love as they are.
12. Want a woman that can comfort them when they are having problems.
13. To understand them.
14. Like women who loves to play eyes / look at handsome guy, men also has the same habit of look at the another lady, yet, dont be jealous and accept it.
15. Understand their jobs, that if they need to talk to another women because it is their works nature, then do understand that.
16. Asked them , instead of accuse them.
17. Not yell, because they will shut down themselves if we shout to them.

What I understand about LOVE

Love....

"I love you", "Wo ai ni", "Aishiteru" or in Iban language, my native language, " Aku sayau ka nuan"...

I heard above words many time before, even til the moments I am writing this post... Love is something that can be share, among anyone, anywhere. Although we cannot give money, give gifts, and gave a bungalow, even worse, a moon for the one that we love, but, still, it is easy for us to give love.

Has been few months I wanted to share with the worlds about this LOVE and Relationship things, based on my own life experience. For me to hear someone tell me, how much he / she loves me, I felt so grateful, yet so happy til want to jump.

But then, I also learn...
To say the word, "LOVE" is easy as ABC...DEF.. But to keep the words forever, it is a big thing.

How to keep? Here is why I am opening this blog. Just to share with the worlds, what, why, how, when and 5H1W questions to be answers. I hope to help, because my aim is to be the most 89percent successful relationship psychology in the world.